Happy 15th Birthday Dylan Ellis Abbott

Happy birthday my Nin Nin

I love you berry berry much

And you are my best friend and my best friend in the whole wide world.

Love Mummy Jape

Dylan and Joanie

Dylan and Joanie

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Proud brother Liam showing off his new baby

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Frowny baby Dylan

Santa, Liam and Dylan, 1999

Santa, Liam and Dylan, 1999

Dylan and mummy

Dylan and mummy

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Dylan likes cake (notice the plate he is sitting on)

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Gabriel Ellis, Dylan Ellis Abbott, Sam Watson, Don Gaffney

 

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Dylan and his proud big brother Liam

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Happy baby Dylan

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Dylan and his mummy

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Another happy baby photo of Dylan Ellis Abbott (with snot)

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Dyl in bath

All dressed up for Jo

All dressed up for Joshua’s wedding

Liam and Dylan 2001

Liam and Dylan 2001

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Dylan Abbott, Julie-Ann Ellis and Liam Clark @ Cylinder Beach, North Stradbroke Island

Liam and Dylan 2001

Liam and Dylan 2001

Liam and Dylan 2002

Liam and Dylan 2002

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Jamie Dover’s birthday at McDonalds. Liam Clark, Dylan Abbott and Caden Abbott.

Dylan and Ryan 2003

Dylan and Ryan 2003

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Cute Dylan waving

 

Ryan's first birthday

Ryan’s first birthday

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Dylan in water at Surfers Paradise

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Dylan Ellis Abbott

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“I am strong” Dylan Ellis Abbott

Prep year

Prep year

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Dylan looks over fence

Dylan Year One

Dylan Year One

Dylan and family, 2003

Dylan and family, 2003

 

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Liam Clark, Dylan Abbott, Craig Abbott and Claudia Anderson

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Holiday fun at Elliott Heads – Cerys Lines, Ryan Abbott, Bryn Lines, Dylan Abbott and Liam Clark

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Family camping at Elliott Heads – Liam Clark, Ryan Abbott, Dylan Abbott and Julie-Ann Ellis

Crazy brothers

Crazy brothers

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Crazy friends – Dylan and Bryn

Dylan and Liam, Wynnum Central State School, 2007

Dylan and Liam, Wynnum Central State School, 2007

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Dylan and Ryan Fishing

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Liam and Dylan 2006

Liam and Dylan 2006

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Listening intently

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Bucket heads

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Dylan’s 10 birthday celebrations – Ryan Hassell, Dylan Abbott and ??

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Bowling birthday fun – 10th birthday – Bryn Lines, Ryan Hassell, Dylan Abbott and ??

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Dylan (10) and Liam (15)

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Dylan looking alot like Ryan looks now

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Dylan Abbott, Will Macklin, Ryan Abbott, Liam Clark and Amber Macklin

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A totem of children

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Claudia Ellis and Dylan Abbott and we know who the other guys are

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My beautiful son Dylan Ellis Abbott

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Jason, Dylan, Ryan (going in for the pinch), Jet and Adam

 

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Dylan in Joanie’s hospital bed

 

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Ekka fun – back to front, left to right – Claudia Ellis, Liam Clark, Jaimie Dover, Dylan Abbott and Ryan Abbott

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Spunky Dylan

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Dylan at Island Vibe festival

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Dylan at Island Vibe

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Surfing at the Baywave Youth Festival

 

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Ryan, Dylan and Jaimie, Wynnum Central State School, 2008(?)

Santa, Liam, Ryan, Jaimie and Dylan, 2010

Santa, Liam, Ryan, Jaimie and Dylan, 2010

Ryan, Dylan and Jaimie, Wynnum Central State School, 2009

Ryan, Dylan and Jaimie, Wynnum Central State School, 2009

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Dylan’s class at the party of the last day of Wynnum Central State School

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Last day of Wynnum Central State School

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Graffiti on mum

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Dylan pondering

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Playing in the rain – Dylan Ellis Abbott

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Year Seven Graduation

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Year seven graduation with classmates and principle

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Last day of primary school, after accepting the “Good Citizen” award

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Fun with uncle Calum, North Queensland

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Calum, Dylan and Ryan, near Mission Beach

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Recovering after Liam’s 18th

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Jayden and Dylan looking cool

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Group funny family photo – Abbott’s and Ellis’ alike

New courts for Wynnum Central State School – 26.04.06

Wynnum Central State School is expected to celebrate the opening of its new multipurpose courts in the next few weeks.

Past student of WCSS, Ron Cushing, bequeathed his estate to Wynnum Central State School Parents and Citizens Association, for the children’s sports.

Teacher, Mr Greg Johnston said “He (Ron Cushing) originally wanted a roller skating rink or a swimming pool for the students but with the risk of injuries and the cost of paid pool maintenance, they were not viable options.”

Creative Court Concepts Pty Ltd has nearly completed the construction of the courts costing $103,600.

P & C President, Mrs Sharon Denby confirmed that without Mr Cushing’s generous donation, the school world not have received any of the grants made available to them.

Mr Cushing donated $35,000, which the P & C left in a bank account to earn interest.

“A Smart Schools Subsidy Scheme grant and Education Queensland provided the rest of the money needed,” said Mrs Denby.

Wynnum Central State School currently has only one large oval and the multipurpose courts will serve the students well says Mr Johnston.

The courts that will be used on a daily basis for tennis, basketball, netball and volleyball.

They are yet to be named and officially opened.

 

Ron Cushing

Before his death, Ron Cushing’s passion was to visit his old school, some people believed that he was lonely and just needed a chat.

The children of Wynnum Central State School learnt a realm of things, like, what it was like to go to school in the 1930’s and what it was like to be in a war.

Ronald Frederick Cushing was born in Brisbane on November 19, 1926 and died alone in Brisbane on March 29, 2003.

Ron grew up in the Wynnum/Manly area and was eight years old when he first attended Wynnum Central State School, “… when the butcher and baker came around on a horse.”

“Children would go down to the beach at Wynnum or Manly at night, both girls and boys, get together to talk and often get into mischief but not destructive mischief, only mild.

“Those of us who got together on the beach were often chased by a local policeman, as there was a police station at Manly and one at Wynnum and if you were caught, you got a kick in the pants, which to those not caught was funny,” said Ron (from the Wynnum Herald).

At school, Ron played sports such as rugby league, hockey and athletics.

He also played in the school FIFE band and was the first student to use double bass drum sticks (from Wynnum Central State School, Celebrating over 100 years of Education. 1896-1996).

Ron (who could be called a skylark at times), would replace the wrapped lollies on the teachers desk (gifts from the school girls) with soap.

“He [the teacher] went straight out the door and we found a chewed up bit of soap at the bottom of the steps,” said Ron (from the Wynnum Herald).

In 1941, Ron Cushing failed his scholarship year (senior primary) and decided to turn his attentions to the army.

At the age of 13 years, he had talked his mother and local doctor into signing the necessary papers for joining the army.

He recalled the shocked faces of his fellow pupils when he turned up to school in army uniform (from the Wynnum Herald).

It is believed that he only served a short time in the army at this time.

While waiting in the inoculation line at Redbank training camp he was spotted coincidently by his unsuspecting father.

His father (who knew nothing of his son joining the army), pulled Ron out of the inoculation line, by the ear, and took him home to his mother.

Ron was subsequently discharged from the army.

Ron joined the army again, in November 1950, but this time, his musical talents were recognized early and he was posted to the Northern Command Band until he was sent to Korea (from the Australian War Memorial Collection Database).

Ron was placed with the Regimental Band of 2RAR, where during the heavy fighting at The Hook, members of the drum corps and the bandmaster acted as the local defense section at the battalion command post (from Australian War Memorial).

Ron served 320 days in Korea and joined the Citizens Military Force in 1956.

Current Wynnum Central State School student, Liam Clark, remembers Ron attending  the school for the 2002 ANZAC Day celebrations.

“He stood on the front stairs of the school and told the story of how he enlisted when he was thirteen years old,” said Liam.

  1. Cushing was an avid roller skater and every Saturday morning was found at the Cleveland Roller Skating Rink, teaching children how to skate.

He was awarded with a Senior’s Award for his work with youth (particularly the skating) by ex Federal Member for Bowman Mr. Con Sciacca (from the Wynnum Herald).

Many of the staff and students of Wynnum Central State School remember Ron fondly.

Parent, Annette Rolley, recalls his ANZAC Day contribution but also that he was a “lovely man.”

“Ron would be here by morning tea and at lunch he would sit with the children and tell them stories about Wynnum Central State School.

“I think it is very important for the children to realize that their history is vital for growth,” said Nola Schmidt, Teacher Aide.

Current Teacher, Mr. Greg Johnston said, “As well as every ANZAC Service, Ron would make it a ritual to participate as a guest presenter for the end of year award ceremonies.

“Before he passed away, we had an annual Ron Cushing Award for the Highest Achiever.”

“I believe he must have been a very lonely man and he just needed the company,” said Mrs. Schmidt.

Sadly, Mr. Cushing passed away in 2003.

Though, he left a generous donation to the school, which has enabled them to get some badly needed multipurpose courts.

Principle of Wynnum Central State School, Mr. Peter James, said, “Ron made it explicitly clear that his wish was for the proceeds of his estate were to go towards a facility the school children could use.”

The children of Wynnum Central State School will now play happily on their new courts and I am sure Ron Cushing’s spirit is playing with them.

(Please note (27 August, 2014): This article was written in 2006, it is the addition of an assignment submitted to UQ newspace (an online portal).  I will post the entire assignment in the following days and touch on the subject of Wynnum Central State School. Additionally, what a pity I did not source my in-text references correctly, as we don’t get the full range of dates and so on to go with the history of the story.)

For extra information on Ron Cushing, go to; http://www.awm.gov.au/collection/HOBJ4705/

http://trove.nla.gov.au/ndp/del/article/50570850

References

Australian War Memorial Collections Database (1953). “Ron Cushing.” https://cas.awm.gov.au/TST2/cst.acct_master?sur1=921172903ZZZZXGCXNRHO148252&stype=3&simplesearch=&v_vmo=&product_id=&screen (Accessed April 24, 2006)

Clark, Liam (2006).  Personal Interview 23 April.

Elwell, Grant (Education Queensland) (2006).  Telephone Interview 19 April.

Rolley, Annette (2006). Personal Interview 24 April.

Schmidt, Nola (2006). Personal Interview 24 April.

Johnstone, Greg (2006).  Personal Interview 24 April.

___ (1996), “Wynnum Central State School: Celebrating over 100 years of Education, 1896-1996.” –n.p.

___ (1996), “Ron ‘rocked up’ in uniform.” Wynnum Herald 21 Febuary, Edition 1.

___ (2000), “Rolling Ron Remembers School.”  Wynnum Herald 12 January, Edition 1.

___ (2000), “Briefs.” Wynnum Herald 25 October, Edition 1.

___ (2000), “Special award to seniors.”  Wynnum Herald 01 November, Edition 1.

___ (2005), “Funds boost sports plans.”  Wynnum Herald 05 January, Edition 1.

 

Ron Cushing

Second version 

Julie-Ann Ellis

27.08.14

(First version

26.04.06)

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Court Reporting

Court Reporting 8 October 2001

Julie-Ann Ellis

A Toowoomba man pleaded guilty in the Toowoomba Magistrate’s Court yesterday, to charges of drink driving and breaking and entering.

Police allege Mathew Howard, 26, with two associates, broke into a house in Malbec Court on August 19.

They allegedly stole property worth $4870.

Neighbours told police that a beige Volkswagen Kombi was in the parking lot at the time of the burglary.

On September 7, Howard was driving on Mort Street when police stopped him for a random breath test.

His blood alcohol level was recorded at 0.170%.

After searching the vehicle, police found clothes matching the description of what the offender was wearing.

He told the court that he had a substance abuse problem, which was related to the death of his mother.

Howard was ordered to pay one third of the total amount stolen and was placed on three years probation.

Poor?!?

My first complaint of the week is the obvious and often discussed statement by our Federal Treasurer Joe Hockey. 

The claim: Joe Hockey says higher income people pay the most fuel tax, because poor people don’t own cars or don’t drive very far” (ABC NEWS ONLINE 2014).

There are so many things wrong with this statement that I am not sure where to start.

Firstly, Mr Hockey apologised for this statement and then he turned around and blamed the media for misrepresenting his quote. 

Secondly, ABC NEWS ONLINE (2014) report in their Fact Check, “The verdict: While high income Australians spend more in dollar terms on fuel, the impact on their budget is less. Mr Hockey’s claim that raising fuel tax will affect high income earners more is misleading.”

Thirdly, I am a poor person, I do not own a car – I am lucky enough to borrow one – but as a mother I drive a lot.

I need this car to drive my son to dance lessons.

I need this car to drive to clean the dance studio (everyday) so that I can pay for the dance lessons.

I need this car to drive to my employment service so that I attend my “obligatory” appointments and use the computers as I cannot afford internet access at my premises.

I need this car to drive my son to and from school (sometimes).

I need this car to access my two sons that do not live with me.

I need this car so that I can drive my three sons to various appointments (when I am available and when I can afford the petrol).

I need this car to attend job interviews.

I need this car to carry out the grocery shopping.

I am sure you have the point, without the loan of that car, my life would be extremely difficult.

The problem is that sometimes I cannot do some of these things because I cannot afford the fuel.

Maybe if the cost of fuel wasn’t so high, then I would be able to buy my own car and drive everybody around all the time.  My biggest point is that: these fuel taxes are prohibiting more people from buying more cars.  The purchase of more cars, registration, insurance, services, tires, fuel and so on, add more money to the economy and keep the world smiling.  Why prevent rich and poor people the opportunity of this access for ultimately more money into the Government’s slush fund?

My second complaint of the week is Child Support.  Yes the dreaded word but I have to get this out without defaming anyone.

The most prevalent point is, “children benefit from both parents and other family members being involved in their lives” (Commonwealth of Australian 2009).  I believe that any child needs their community/tribe/family to grow into a well-adjusted adult.  It is that strong community/tribe/family that attribute to a child’s strengths, beliefs and characters.  It is vitally important.  What I don’t believe in is a parent whom runs away and doesn’t make contact with their children for two years (except for two parcels in the mail).

“The support you pay is only the share your kids need while they are with your ex-wife.  You are still responsible for support during your time, just as your ex-wife is still responsible for support during her time” (Allen 2014). 

Meaning it is not just the monetary support but the emotional and loving support that every child needs and desires. 

“The amount of child support paid will depend upon various factors including:

  • How many nights the child spends with each parent;
  • The taxable income of both parents (this is the amount earned before tax is paid);
  • The age of the child;
  • Any other special needs or circumstances” (Queensland Law Practice Pty Ltd 2012).

Another, “where do I begin moment?”…

My second child has just moved in with his father, we both share the boys when their own schedules fit, basically, it is up to the boys and what is going on in their lives. 

Their father has done one or two tax lodgement in the last fifteen years (the age of my middle son).

The father works cash in hand for his parents (which I can’t prove because I can’t afford a private investigator but at the moment is receiving workers compensation and yes I have advised the CSA of this and they said they cannot do anything until he does his tax).

I have done my tax and the now my income is greater than his, so he doesn’t have to pay ANY CHILD SUPPORT.

AND….,

My youngest son has proven special needs (medical experts, his school, speech therapists and the Child Support Agency) but child support will not help me with the added costs that will help with him to read.  The father and his family lay blame on me and refuse to help.

THE WORST THING IS…

This so called fantastic father, whom has schemed and scammed his way out of providing for his children their entire lives, will receive child support from me, when I gain my dream job!!!!!

Okay, it is not all doom and gloom and I get the other side of the argument as well, there are many fathers out there working their asses off to pay for their kids but how is it fair when some women get everything they want and more while others suffer?

I know a lady that had a baby a few years ago to “an unknown father” (and we all know she knows who the father is) and because of this status on the baby’s birth certificate and with Centrelink, the father of the legitimate children has to pay more to compensate for the “unknown father” baby.

How is this system right?

How do people get away with this?

I know the old adage, “Life isn’t fair” rings true in this but it is the Federal Governments’ job to ensure that hard working people are respected and awarded.  Or we will all just give up and move to the bush and take everything we can.

ABC NEWS ONLINE 2014, Fact check: Joe Hockey’s ‘poor people’ don’t have cars, don’t drive far claim misleading, viewed 21 August 2014, www.abc.net.au/news/2014-08-15/joe-hockey-poor-people-cars-claim-misleading/5671168

Allen, Matt 2014, What Does Child Support Actually Cover?, viewed 21 August 2014, www.dadsdivorce.com/articles/what-does-child-support-actually-cover.html

Farewell Robin Williams

I heard the extremely sad news of Robin Williams parting yesterday on the radio and couldn’t believe it. Though, this was confirmed on facebook, the television and all news casts. The world is dumbfounded and clearly upset by the news that a person whom is so inspirational and much loved could feel so alone and desperate.

This post is to appreciate the Robin Williams that the world loved.
The world mourns you, Robin Williams…

Courtesy of Paramount Pictures

Courtesy of Paramount Pictures

The first time I remember seeing Robin Williams on the big screen was in Popeye. The 1980 movie was being shown by my father (a sergeant in the Australian Army and part time cinema projectionist) at Lavarack Barracks in Townsville, Queensland. (Side note: My father was an inamorato of all things comics and this was very much bestowed to his children.) I was in awe of this “musical comedy, live-action film adaption” (Wikepedia 2014) and clearly remember Popeye (aka Robin Williams) doing back flips on the water at the end of the movie (I was only six at the time). It was then that I fell in love with the actor Robin Williams.

Although I was quite young, the introduction of Mork in “Happy Days” was memorable but it was the television series “Mork and Mindy” that left an imprint on my soul. It taught me that it doesn’t matter who you are or what you are, there is always someone out there that will love you. The frantic and chaotic relationships and happenings of the series related to everyone and simply, allowed us to laugh.

Courtesy of Everett Collection

Courtesy of Everett Collection

This laughter continued until his untimely death and now we are all shedding a tear.

Robin Williams has always been one of my favourite “celebrities” and I have so many favourite memories and will try and give justice to a few of those delightful moments. Williams playing the part of Peter Pan in “Hook”, when Tinkerbell looks at him closely, smooths out his wrinkles and says, “It is you Peter, I can see you.” “Good Morning Vietnam” helped many ex-Vietnam Vets (especially my father) with their healing and recognition of “the war that was not won.” The story of “Patch Adams” is truly inspirational and how can you forget the demons of a single father trying to get close to his family in “Mrs DoubtFire.” Additionally, his serious roles touched a chord amongst fans.

Courtesy of popularlogistics.com

Courtesy of popularlogistics.com

It is obvious that Williams was a deep thinker and chose all of these roles to tell the world of the moral story – whether funny or serious. It is said that this deep thinking was Williams’ demise but it is that deep thinking that will forever live on. Robin Williams, I thank you for inciting my thinking, I thank you for making me laugh and most of all I am sorry that everything got the better of you. You will be remembered with much love.
As my friend Katherine Keegan posted on facebook, “So another amazing talent succumbs to the agony of depression….please people if U are suffering reach out …hands will be there to grasp you and pull you from the abyss….please!!!! the world needs more of the deep thinkers that are so prone to this hideous disease.”

Keegan 2014, Facebook Post, viewed 12 August 2014, http://www.facebook.com/katherine.keegan.18?fref=ts
Wikepedia 2014, Popeye (1980 film), viewed 13 August 2014, en.wikepedia.og/wiki/Popeye_(1980_film).

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